When reading a book, say a book of philosophy that is set in story form, the reader enters into the world of the writer and for a time, while immersed in the author’s world, takes on the world view presented in the pages. A relationship is formed with a book, a subjective experience that can be either enriching or at times damaging.
Reading a book that is written as a defense of one particular point of view, without a story line, is a different experience altogether. We receive from any volume and its message according to the openness to what is being presented. To take an adversarial stance truncates what can be received and can even miss the point entirely. For entering into the world of one who has beliefs foreign to the reader can cause anxiety, but this will pass if stayed with, for integration and deepening of ones understanding of life, is the reward of allowing ones faith and world view to augment and mature.
Some books show us world views that we cannot accept, but can lead to understanding why others think and believe differently. This is not always easy for me, for prejudices towards others is the norm (at least from my own experience) and I being burdened with my own pre-judgments can find myself being very selective in what I take from a volume that is perhaps antipathetic to my own views. Defenses go up very easily, for I believe that most people put a lot of effort into what they believe.
There are people who delve deeply into their chosen world views and I think it is important to read them. Those however who take on a contemptuous attitude, I tend to leave alone, since it causes a response from me, which is often based on anxiety that in turn, makes it impossible to read. If a tome is written simply to attack, it is then written only for those who believe in the same way and will bolster ones superiority towards others, often being spurred on my the choir. So there is little communication when books or papers are written in this genre. Though they often cause lively debate and high book sales for those who participate in this kind of entertainment; which no doubt serves a needed function for society.
At times I find it difficult to give others a fair hearing. I fail to see them, or respond poorly to their own failings in there attempt to get a point across. I see no way out of this dilemma and that has brought me a measure of peace. I am at an age, moving rapidly towards old age. I need to delve deeper into my own path, and yes to perhaps become narrower in my interest, without denying others the right to search other avenues in their own journey towards truth.
Being narrow minded is the problem and is based on arrogance and a type of personal infallibility that I fear is common and that I must fight in myself on a regular basis. We all wish to be seen and heard, well I do, and so I try to give that response to others, though I do fail at times, so strong is my own sense of personal infallibility, sad to say. Yet I will still seek to dilute that vice.
I am a man of faith. Many find such a stance childish, though I do not believe my faith is childish in any way. The struggle for truth is life long and when we die, well we enter into the deepest mystery of all. When I die, and actually find that my faith was true (I am a Christian), I will most likely be astounded and surprised. For below faith, is doubt, perhaps this doubt goes deeper than I wish to contemplate. Yet I choose faith, for though it can seem absurd, a world without God and faith is even more absurd. I seem to be backed into a corner, yet I will always choose faith, for my relationship with God, a God without form, yet manifested in Jesus Christ is the light I have chosen to follow.
Lord I believe; help my unbelief.
Comment by Debra Sartelle on October 30, 2011 at 7:25pm Dear Mark,
Your words ring true to me, as I have this faith, as well. Without it, I am only me. And, me, for the most part, is human. It is only my faith which brings about a "supernatural" part of me. Most everything I read, only confirms my belief. Although, the writer may not support my beliefs, it is always just an added bit of information which makes my faith even stronger. I agree, that it certainly depends on which audience we write to, as to our favor or disdain. Everyone has an opinion, but even worse, we have an ego to go with it. lol Sadly, when the ego gets involved, it kinda takes away from the message. Have you ever noticed that? There is no understanding to my own "understanding"; it goes frolicking along in its own playground. I have my own "boundaries", in which I may agree to an idea, but only because I can paste it onto my own. lol Sometimes, there are no definitions, no scientific data, no historical reviews, etc., to describe what I know and feel inside. There may be a book I read many years ago, with total confusion and misunderstanding, that I can read now, with love and compassion. Life has a way of changing how we view "words". To me, the "words" are only a part of the book; it is the story itself that bears significance. Words can injure; words can heal. And, given time, words can even take on different meaning, as our understanding matures. So, I am with you on this, my friend. How complex we humans are!! hehehe I am also thankful that I have been shown this wonderful way; it brings me such comfort in difficult times. Perhaps, we seem foolish, but that's okay by me. I can handle it. lol
Love to You, My Friend!!
Debra
Comment by Paul Corson on October 31, 2011 at 5:26pm Dear Mark,
I was deeply moved by your honestly regarding your "wavering" faith. It seems that the intellect, your intellect, is hard pressed to accept an infinite creative entity, a something, that is beyond and defiies reason.
But what if rational information was presented that would satisfy the intellect's need for "proof." In that case the anxiety would be eclipsed, yes?. And you would be united in mind and spirit.
love from Paul
Comment by Lee Offenhauer on November 1, 2011 at 1:45am Thanks for sharing that Mark, it was nicely put, and something I'm sure we all can relate to. We can all be petty at times. But being aware of it has tendency to cure it, because though you may have certain thoughts, if you know they may be untrue or prejudicial, you'll never give them the full consent required for them to become an action. I believe that awareness, self acceptance and forgiveness is key here.
Peace to you,
Lee
Comment by Mark Dohle on November 1, 2011 at 7:20pm Thanks everyone for your kind and helpful comments. I think this world we live in is made in such a way that we almost have to seek for answers. Doubt is part of that, it is a spur that causes the search to deepen, or to give up I guess.
peace
mark
I also am a person of faith. I don't think it's childish at all. I think that every particle of creation speaks to the existence of the Creator, and the beautiful and sepectacular inter-relatedness of everything in creation speaks to what the Creator is like. To argue that there is no Creator, in spite of the overwhelming evidence to the contrary, requires an explanation that becomes so completely implausible as to be silly. Science in no way refutes the idea of a Creator, in fact, science only tells us that our Creator is even more magnificent than we previously imagined.
I hear the word faith tossed about quite a bit. I'm always stuck by the difference between faith and idle opinion. Faith is something one lives, not an opinion one recites.
Doubt is our Creator's gift to us. He does not force us to believe. By allowing us to choose to believe, and to live our faith, he creates the possibility for us to give perhaps the only thing we could possibly give to him, which is our will. Even people whohave the most profound mystical experience have to choose to believe or not.
Comment by Mark Dohle on November 7, 2011 at 12:48pm Bill, thank you for your thoughtful comment, I really like how you stated the reality of faith, and yes, it is something lived out.
Peace
mark
Comment by Mark Dohle on November 7, 2011 at 12:50pm Joe, I agree with you, but for those of us who have not been there, then it is faith that deepens as life progresses is our gift from the Creator.
Peace
mark
rudi,
unless you are the site administrator and you've been assigned to police which topics are relevant and appropriate you should confine your comments to threads that interest you. many who've had an nde come back more humble more accepting of others and where they happen to be in their journey. maybe there is a thread on that topic here.
Comment by Perry Steinbach on November 7, 2011 at 9:42pm Rudi, i know what you mean! Good point! Never looked at it that way!
Comment by Lee Offenhauer on November 7, 2011 at 9:55pm Rudi, I love you but with all due respect, I think you are way over-reacting here. Mark has always been totally humble and honest about his faith and has never tried to convince anyone that they should envision the sacred as he does. I don't feel he deserves your condemnation. I support him 100%. He has never been pushy about it, never been derogatory to anyone else's opinions, and always just put his thoughts out there with sincerity and humility, always knowing that words are inadequate to the task of expressing this realm.
Every single one of us are "experiencers." Why? Because we all experience life, and our experience of life leads us to ask big questions, which bring big answers, which inevitably prove to be partial incorrect, at which point we go back to asking the big questions, and on and on. At some point we may be lucky enough to be taken to the realms of Light and shown the reality for ourselves. Many of us have been fortunate enough to have that happen. But guess what; we can't express ourselves any better for having had the experience, and in trying to, we use words that others may misinterpret. So the point is that you have to sense the energy and the spirit behind the words and not just jump at what the word typically means to you.
Again, you know I love you, and I love your expression and your heart, but I truly don't get where your reaction is coming from. There is a great fear in it which I think is entirely unfounded.
Peace all, Lee
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